Saturday, December 30, 2006

Everyone loves a superhero (revised)

Which Super are you?
I was hoping to have Iron Man or Green Lantern a little higher on the list, but all in all, I think this is scary close.

Here are my results:
I am Spider-Man

Spider-Man
75%
Superman
70%
Robin
67%
Iron Man
60%
The Flash
60%
Green Lantern
55%
Hulk
50%
Catwoman
45%
Batman
40%
Supergirl
32%
Wonder Woman
22%
You are intelligent, witty,
a bit geeky and have great
power and responsibility.


Click here to take the Superhero Personality Test




ADDED:
Here is the Dark Donnie Results:
Dark Donnie results:
I am Batman

Batman
75%
Hulk
60%
Spider-Man
50%
Iron Man
50%
Catwoman
40%
Supergirl
32%
Green Lantern
30%
Robin
27%
The Flash
20%
Superman
20%
Wonder Woman
17%
You are dark, love gadgets
and have vowed to help the innocent
not suffer the pain you have endured.


Click here to take the "Which Superhero are you?" quiz...

Wednesday, December 27, 2006

I, Donnie, do hearby promise and resolve...

Ok, so if it's posted on the net, it's gonna happen right? I mean, it's got to?!?!
So, I figured I'd post my New Years Resolutions. Play along and see if/where we line up.
1. Don't take things for granted. Family, friends, job. This is the year to do, not wish or try*. Like Yoda says, "Do or do not. There is no try."
2. Lose weight. BP is 160/119 or something rediculous like that. That looks more like an IQ score before and after watching Dumb and Dumber. The goal is about 50 lbs. Diet and Exercise is the plan. I'm guessing we/I will be on the Adkins Diet, which has worked before and will work again!!!
4. Be better. A kinder, gentler Donnie shall prevail this year. The last year, I've been sullen and upset. Probably depressed, but that's a term that seems hard to define. This year will be different. More perspective, less anger.
5. The Longshot Resolution of the year is: Spend less money. It could happen.

*Note to y'all: xkcd is a funny, funny website, but you gotta be a bit nerdy to get nearly everything on the site.

Tuesday, December 26, 2006

Christmas is a time.....

Wow...what a weekend...sad and sweet.
On Friday, we had to attend a funeral for a friend.
One of the elderly ladies in my church passed on last week. This is the sad part. Sad for me, and for her family, not sad for her. Sister Alice was a great Christian woman and she is at peace and home with the Lord. No doubt.
Sister Alices' daughter, one of my favorite people in the world, Connie, told my wife that they where hoping her mom could be home by Christmas.
When Kim related this to my youngest, he thought that 'Home' was heaven. So he was happy that she had passed away last week....cause she would be home in time for the Birthday Party. I wished I had thought that line up!

So Friday we spent at the funeral and dinner. Saturday was finishing up Christmas shopping and stuff and Sunday started Christmas.

We go to my folks house on Christmas Eve and spend the day there.
We watched the Lions lose again. Ate a yummy dinner and opened presents. It's always good to spend the day with my folks. I don't do it as much as I should. That'll go to the top of New Years Lists.

Monday, we got up and had Christmas with the Kids....this is becoming one of my favorite times of the year. We used to spend New Years Eve Night at my In Laws...but once the other siblings started having kids, and my kids got older (drat) this got harder to do. So a few years ago, we started staying home and having Christmas at our house in the morning and then heading to the In Laws.

The kids got the normal toothbrush, toothpaste, candy and cloths. They also got some video games and such. They soon busted out the new DDR game. VV cool, especially when Mitch wiped out!

After that we went to the In Laws for breakfast (only so many ways you can spell yummy!) and presents.
After a while all the siblings showed up and things were right in the world. It's hard to put into words how much I care for this family, but I always feel it so sharply when were NOT all together. The last couple of years, Christmas has been spread out over there. Not everyone is lucky like us and can spend the whole day with the family. I realize that, but that doesn't mean I wish it weren't so.

Anyway, it was a very nice holiday...looking forward to the New Year...new resolutions, new decisions, new family memebers!!!

Sunday, December 24, 2006

Fleas and Eggnog

Merry Christmas to all.
May your days be merry and bright.
May all your cards be live and your pots be monsters.
May the Lord bless thee and keep thee, all the days of your life.
May you never let a fool kiss you or a kiss fool you.
And remember, do or do not. There is no try.

Wednesday, December 20, 2006

We Are Family....revised

The other day, I posted about my 3 families. My immediate family, my wifes family (both immediate and extended) and my church. I forgot one other family. My work family.
I've been working in a "Professional" environment for 6 and a half years. Two years as a technician and the other 4 as a Business Analyst. In that time, I've worked with some of the most remarkable people.
I've had wonderful bosses who cared about me, my career and my family. I've made some of the closest friends of my life.

Yesterday we had our holiday lunch/party for our team. We ate dinner at Buca di Beppo's, which is 'oh my goodness' good. We had a blast just chatting and picking on each other and laughing. After that, most of us went over to Bill's house (one of my co-workers) for more fun and frivolity, revolving around playing cards and picking on Shivani:)

One of these day's, I'm going to have to find a new position within the company. I've been looking for a few months. I don't really like what I do anymore. I've been around this department for a long time and need something new. But the thing I'm most hesitant about in finding a new position is having to find a new family.

Tuesday, December 19, 2006

Glittering Jewels of Colossal Ignorance part 1

This is the first installment of a rant that I'd like to go on. As mentioned in an earlier post, I don't particularly like morons. Morons, idiots, jerks...that kind of stuff really gets on my nerves*. So on the GJCI posts, I'm going to point out people or instances of these that I see.
It pains me that the first group that I will pick on here is Christians. But this is like family, I can pick, but you can't. No really...I get very frustrated with Christian bashing, some times (a lot of times) it's called for. The people who are "Leaders" of the large Christian organizations nationally say and do dumb things that make others of the faith seem as insensitive and stupid as they. Things like Jerry Falwell coming out and saying that the September 11th attacks were a result of God's wrath on a sinful group of people. I don't believe that....can't find it in the bible.
That's just an example, not today's topic.
Today's topic revolves around Keith Ellison (D-Minn). He's the first Muslim elected to congress. He's got a bit of a problem. You see, when "they" swear you in to Congress, you know, to protect and defend the constitution, they make you swear on the bible. Well, Mr. Ellison has a bit of a problem with that. He's a Muslim. He don't believe the bible. He would like to swear on the Koran.

Now, here's where people ard displaying themselves as Glittering Jewels of Colossal Ignorance: People are upset with him over this. They are mad. How dare he not SWEAR ON THE BIBLE?!?!?! Why, that's, that's, unbiblical or something. How dare he? Doesn't he know this is America? Home of the Brave and Land of the Intolerant.
What is really ignorant about the stand that these people are taking is that this: Matthew 5:34 says, and I quote: "But I say unto you, Swear not at all; neither by heaven; for it is God's throne:"

Now, we can get all scholarly on this and discuss context and all, but you can't get around it. A Christian shouldn't need to swear. Yes should mean yes and No should mean No. By that same standard, asking someone who is a Christian to swear on the bible to something is asking the go against the Word of the bible to do so. Asking a non-Christian to be bound by the bible is just dumb ('nother rant for 'nother day).

Anyway, it just seems stupid to be angry at someone who doesn't believe in the bible to swear an oath on said bible when the RED LETTERS in that same bible say, Don't Swear An Oath.

Elbow.
And.
Send.

*Hypocrisy Warning! This does not mean that I'm not a moron, an idiot or a jerk at times....when I am, I don't like me either.

All Good Things.....

Well, today it happened.
I never, in a million years thought it would, but it did.
I resigned my post as secretary, and Sunday School Superintendant from church.
Still can't believe it. I. Quit. Church.
For the first time in 20 years, I don't have a church that I belong to. That's a tricky thought to wrap my pea brain around.
Not permanently or anything silly like that...we just have to find a new home.

My wife and I met with the Pastor and his wife tonight for an hour and a half or so. It was nice. It's not because of them that we are leaving. They are two of the best people you'll ever meet. Our youngest son's middle name is after my Pastor. He's been a friend and mentor for a long time. His wife has been a gleaming example of a Christian woman for my daughter. I've never been ashamed to call them friends.
Pastor said that he thinks it's going to be tough to replace us...maybe or maybe not. One thing is for sure, it's going to be impossible for us to replace them.

I'm not sure where we go from here, but I know where we end up will be right, will be home.
I think it was Ben Franklin who once talked about the Truth. He said when you hear something that's right, just right, a bell kind of goes off in your head. That's the way home is. When you walk in the door, you know...this is home.
I've bought two houses...and both of them, when I walked in the door, I had that feeling. I'm praying that that's what happens with the right church for my family. When I walk in the door, it feels like home. It may take some time, but I believe it'll happen.

It's been a good run there...18 years at one church is a long time. All good things must come to an end...this wasn't the end that I had hoped for, but it's the end I got. Pray that a good thing starts too....

Saturday, December 16, 2006

We are family....

Family takes care of family. I'm not sure where I heard that, or when, but for some reason I've taken it to heart. I believe it. It's part of who I am.
Ever since I was 15, I've had at least two, then three families.
Obviously my folks, sister and brother were and are my first family. Family was big, specially to my mom, when I was growing up. We would make the four hour drive every holiday and at least once during the summer all through my youth.

Eventually, I started dating this real hot chick (that's another post). Didn't take long before I was head over heals for her. She was just right...long legs, long blond hair and big...um...eyes (yeah, eyes). Perfect. Plus she was smart and funny and all that jazz (blah blah blah.....let's get back to the...um....eyes).

Anyway....I digress....one of the things that I loved/love most about her was her family. The way they had get togethers, and loved each other and took care of each other. I always felt a part...felt like her sisters where my sisters...her little brother was my little brother. I still feel that way.

Today we had our annual Christmas Party. Oh what fun. Granma was there, and an aunt and uncle were there...Nana and Pappa were there too.....but only one sister. No brother.
Don't get me wrong...Billie, John and the Girls rock so hard it's not funny, but I did miss the other two and their families. That's one of those funny things were when not everyone is there, it doesn't feel completely right. I'm glad everyone has grown up, and found great people to fall in love with and have gobs and gobs (9.4 to be exact) children, but it sucks that they have lives that don't revolve around the greater family anymore. Not that it was their fault that they couldn't come today...we planned the party a bit later than maybe we should have, but that we came behind the other things that they needed to go to.

Oh well. It was still fun, plus Mitch got to play some Magic with his Uncle John. I swear that kid would move in with them if he had his chance. He'd miss his mom and maybe his older brother, but he's pretty sure they would come and visit! :)

BTW...my third family, my church.

Tuesday, December 12, 2006

What just happened?

Morons....I detest morons. Friend morons are terrible...family morons are nearly intolerable.

My niece used to live with us. She had lived with my parents since she was a child, owing to the fact that my brother was a complete moron (long story).
A few years back, my mom had a rather sever stroke. Between that and the fact that time marches on and teenagers keep agering, it was getting more and more difficult for my Mom and niece to live under the same roof. So, it was either come live with us or put her into the system.
We chose ill.
She lived with us for almost exactly a year. Things started off nice enough, until, a week or so into her coming to stay, she informed me that she may be pregnant. Mind you we ASKED specifically if there was ANY CHANCE of this being the case prior to her moving in. She said no. This was the beginning of a beautiful relationship.

As it turned out, she wasn't pregnant. However, the next year, we did our best to keep it that way.
As time went on, things settled down. Her grades improved a bit, she was getting along, but every once in a while she'd melt down and all was rotten again.
Near the end, it became more and more apparent that things weren't going to work out much longer. She was lying all the time, stealing, her grades were getting worse and she was making life in my house a hell.
The last straw came when, after much prodding, she told me she thought she might be pregnant again....hmmmm I'm detecting a pattern.

So, we talked it over with my parents and they were going to bring her back with them, with the stipulation that if she couldn't walk the straight and narrow, she'd be placed in some kind of wayward teen home.

During this time, she struck up a friendship with a family at church. A church mind you that she told me many times she hated...didn't like the fact that the women wore dresses and didn't cut their hair...didn't like any kind of moral boundries at all...bad bad church.
Anyway, just yesterday, we find out that she and this family have apparently been planning for some time for her to come live with them. So she went to her school and informed them that she would be dropping out on Friday and not to expect her back. Seriously? Seriously.

My folks are pretty upset...I'm livid...to the point of blowing up. Not because she's leaving...I couldn't really care less than I do...but all the ansilary things around her leaving. What it does to my folks. The way it happened. The fact that PEOPLE I GO TO CHURCH WITH WOULD DO THIS WITHOUT SO MUCH AS MENTIONING IT! (!@#$!@%^$^@@#$@#$!@!@#$#^!@#$!#!@#) Sorry.
This hurts...more than I can even say. More than I can believe.

My wife already told me she won't be going back to church. I can't say as I blame her. I know it's not the church's fault, and Lord knows my Pastor, who is a decent man, is not to blame for this...but how can we worship, sing, be nice, to people who do such a dastardly deed?
Christmas for Christ service is this Sunday. We have a nice service set up...lots of singing, puppets, my kids have solo parts in songs....and I'm thinking of not going. That's inconceivable to me (yes I do know what that word means)...I'm sure the kids and I will go, cause I wouldn't do that to our Choir Director, whom I adore, and to my Pastor, whom I love very much....but I do believe this will be our last week there......please pray.

Monday, December 11, 2006

Happy Birthday Twins

The coolest thing about being a parent is that you find out that you are capable of things that you wouldn't have know otherwise. Most prevelant among the things you realize you are (more) capable of is love.
The capacity to love grows exponentially when children are born. This is why the death of a child is so stunningly acute to a parent. The gap that is left behind by that death can only be salved by the Spirt of God.

That said, I'm constantly amazed at how much I love my children. Adoration is such a good word, because it conveys soooo much. I adore them and they are adorable. It's a good match.

Today is their birthday, and they are, , 12 years old. This means that in 365 days, I will be the proud papa of teenagers! Shoot me now!

Happy Birthday M&M....you two rock!
Today is the day.
If you've not heard, today is the day that the general salaried employees and their supervisors who have the pleasure of working at FoMoCo find out about the next steps in their future. Talk about harshing your buzz!
We all get to go in with our bosses boss (manager) and get read to. She (my manager) has a script that she is NOT to deviate from in the slightest, instructing me that I need to make the best descision possible for my family and my future. You can read that as: Take the Money and Run....Please!
I've got a couple of problems.
1. I love working here. Almost 7 years ago, I lost my first job...had twins and a bun in the oven and the place where I worked closed. Fun. However, I also had (and continue to have) bunches of people who love and pray for my family. The Lord worked everything out (as he usually does, even if I screw it up) to where I could finish my degree, feed the kids and keep the house, and when that was all set, he gave me a good job that became a doorway to where I'm at now. It's been great. I don't wanna leave!
2. Even if I wanted to, it wouldn't make sense...I don't have enough time in here to make it worthwhile to take the voluntary package. So, as I told my boss, they can have my badge when they pry it out of my cold, dead hands.

So long story longer, I get to listen to my manager tell me that if I can, I should leave. If I can't there may be a chance I get asked to leave. And if neither of that happens all is well and good, the company will make billions of dollars and we can all live happily ever after....NOT!

Monday, December 04, 2006

The Wonders of the Web

Whatever did we do before the internet? I'm planning a little poker party at my house next month am using eVite to send the invitations out. It'll manage my invitees as well as their responses....allow them to ask questions and for me to follow up. What a cool tool.

Also, I spent a couple of hours on YouTube on Saturday, just going thru old John Denver clips. I grew up listening to country music (because of my parents) and he was on of the Family Favoites. I saw a special on him on PBS this weekend and waxed nostalgic, so dialed up the old intertubes and found hundreds of clips on JD.

In addition, the wife and I did a bunch of Christmas shopping last night from the comfort of my bed. Bought the kids Nintendo games, some audio equipment for my in-laws and a Guitar Hero II for my sister (so she can give to her boys!!!).

Gotta love the net....I guess I'm just white and nerdy!

Saturday, December 02, 2006

Christmas Lists

One of the fun things about Christmas time is the kids making up their Christmas lists. For as long as there has been a Santa Clause there have been kids making their lists, and checking them 400 times. My kids have been making their lists since October. It's cute.
However, what I don't like, is making them myself.
My mother in law insists on getting lists from all the adult kids. It drives me nuts. It feels like begging!
My opinion on adults exchanging gifts is that you get someone something YOU think they would like. You pay attention, think, check around with other people to see what they think and then you make a decision. But NOOOOOoooo. This is too time consuming. To hard to do. Just write up a list and hand it over and they'll do the rest from there. Blah blah blah.
The really frustrating thing about it is that I think that I'm very easy to figure out.
I like: Poker stuff (movies about poker, books about poker, periphenaliea), Golf, Bowling, Reading, Movies, Tools, I play guitar, collect Mustang (model cars) and am a computer/tech nerd. The tricky thing would be finding something that I WOULDN'T want for Christmas (Paisley Ties....yuck).
Oh, well, you know what the old folks say....C'est la vie.
Now, where is my Word file of last years Christmas list......

Friday, December 01, 2006

Stress Headache

Ever since I was young, I've gotten headaches. Not the normal, "aspirin will take care of it" kind of headaches...I get those too...but the kind of headache that makes you feel like you're going to throw up. The kind that hurts so bad that I give myself black eyes from pushing a cool rag too hard onto my face. No fun.
The thing is, they are fairly predictable. Looking back, it's not stress that induces these things, but it's the release of stress.
After a big project is done at work or a big family issue gets resolved...something like that.
I've got one of those headaches today.
Yesterday was a big, fat, hairy stressful day.
1) Big Project rolled out at work. I work in a web based application that is used globally at Ford Motor Company. Yesterday we rolled out a new security model that we've been working on all year. I hate roll out days!
2) I got turned down for a new position inside Ford. I've been in the same job for about 5 years and it's time to move on. There was a job opening for a real sic job that I had hoped for, but there were tons of applicants. I found out yesterday I didn't get the job.
3) Performance Review time. At FoMoCo we do performance reviews at the end of the year. These help determine pay increases and helps with promotions. I had one of the best PR's that I've ever had, and had stressed about getting through it.
4) Church. We are very involved in our church. I'm a board member, the Sunday School Superintendant and a Sunday School teacher. Have been for 15 years. Yesterday I had to tell the other board members that my family may be leaving for another church pretty soon. My kids are growing up, and our current church doesn't have any kind of youth ministry or many other kids their age to befriend. This has been the case for a long time, but it's coming to be a problem with the twins hitting 12 years old this month. My wife didn't think I'd tell them, cause she knew how much I was dredding this. I love my church..but my family has to come before the church and I feel this is best for my family. Still hated having the discussion.

All these things had their conclusions yesterday....and today BANG! Screeming, pounding, headache.

Thank God for Vicadin!

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

I love TV

Wednesdays are the worst day of the week. I don't like any of the regular shows on tonight...pretty much every other day of the week has AWESOME shows!!!
Monday (Favorite night):
High Stakes Poker:
Yummy poker. I love poker. Daniel Negraneau is my favorite player, and so very much enjoy watching these guys joke and prod while winning and losing thousands of dollars.

Heroes:
What a great show. Save the Cheerleader, Save the World tells you everything you need to know about this show. A great story line, real bad guys, real good guys and several who you really don't know about. I still can't figure out if the Guy with the Horned Rim Glasses (HRG) is a bad guy or a good guy. The same with the monster woman Jessica. This is part of what makes the show great...it drives me nuts that I can't figure it out, and I love that I can't figure it out!

Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip:
OMG...possible my favorite show right now. I want to be Matthew Perry's character, I want to work with someone who knows the things I need to know and vise versa...perfect show and getting better every week.

Tuesday Night:
House:
Another strong show. The characters are so well written and acted that it's stunning. Hugh Laurie may be the best actor on TV today. He does such a great job of playing this character. His facial expressions alone speak volumnes.

Boston Legal:
When I grow up, if I can't be House, I wanna be Alan Shore. Possibly the best character on TV today. This show is smart and witty and doesn't take itself to seriously. I love the occasional interaction of the characters with the audience. I hate David Kelly's politics, but even when he buries the show in it, it's still great TV. Realizing as I type that one of the things I like about this show is the connection between Denny and Alan, the same thing I like about Studio 60....more realization...I have that connection with the Wife!

Wednesday Night:
Nada

Thursday Night:
Grey's Anatomy:
This has been my favorite show, and still rocks, however, it seems to be getting a bit too serious. My wife and I used to be big ER fans, but it got WAY WAY to stressful, so we stopped...I hope GA doesn't go that way. Also, a great blog of the show helps addicts with down time(Greys Writers)

Friday Night:
Avatar: The Last Airbender:
A friend at work turned me on to this show...me and my kids love to watch it. This Friday is the last episode for this edition of the story line and I can't wait. Well written and drawn. Great story line and very interesting characters. If you like cartoons, this is a can't miss.

Battlestar Gallactica:
I was a BG fan growing up, and these guys have done a FABULOUS job of staying true to the story, giving it a fresh twist and making it relevant to today's SCI FI nerds. They keep giving interesting story lines and more great great acting! I'm still waiting for the felgercarb curse word and Cassiopeia to show up!

Man, I watch to much TV!

Friday, November 24, 2006

Holiday TV

Trying to get motivated to get moving this morning. Kim's still sleeping in the Sun Room, Bear is still in bed and the boy's are down at my sisters.
So....I'm watching Holiday TV!
On Bravo this morning is the Funniest Movies of all time marathon. I LOVE all time lists.
Of the ones that have been listed, I've seen 80% or so. Some that I've not seen that I really need to are:
The Big Libowski, Wedding Crashers and This Is Spinal Tap. I've quoted lines from those movies (the 11 gig in Spinal Tap is classic...I've seen the scene, not the movie) but never seen them. I'm ashamed!

They've not missed any of my favorites:
Stripes, Monty Python's Search for the Holy Grail, Young Frankenstein, Bill and Ted, Fast Times at Ridgemont High and such
The great thing about these Best Off shows is that
1) You get validation...what you loved about a movie, others loved,
and 2) You learn something about it that you didn't know. I like the way the go behind the scenes, talk with the directors or actors and talk about something you wouldn't get by just watching the movie.

I can never figure out what my favorite funny movie is....I love so many funny movies...if you put a gun to my head, it would probably be between Ferris Bueller's Day Off and The Blues Brothers. Choosing between favorite funny films is like choosing which child is your favorite...impossible. You love them for vastly different reasons.

Thankful (belated)

I know this is usually done ON Thanksgiving, but, I figure I'll be a rebel and do it the day AFTER Thanksgiving.

I kind of complained about having to go to th family party yesterday, but after spending the day with both sides of the family, I realized, I like those people. Aunts, Uncles, nephews and nieces, moms and dads, children and wife. I sat in bed last night, and realized I had a good day and much to be thankful for. I got a bunch of people who love and care about me, and more importantly, care about what's important to me.

I love you guys.

Thursday, November 23, 2006

Happy Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving everybody!
We're all just laying in bed watching Detroit's Thanksgiving Parade.
One thing is for sure, I need a bigger bed. Now that the kids are growing up, we don't fit the way we used to!!!

I gotta get moving pretty soon. Dinner at Kim's Aunt is in a few hours and I have to make our dish to pass. We are taking Buffalo Wings. VV traditional I know, but we are trying to make an Adkins Diet work in this family and Buffalo Wings only have a few carbs. So, I if can just dodge Gradman's Macaroni and Cheese, Chocalate Delight and Pumpkin Pie, then I'll be ok.

Hope today finds you and yours happy and healthy and not too much heavier!

Wednesday, November 22, 2006

The beginning of the holidays!

Wow, it's the day before Thanksgiving already.
What a good day it's been. Beautiful weather in Michigan today. Warm, sunny and not windy at all. Kim got the Christmas lights up today, that should tell you how nice it is.
My boss let the whole team go early today. She rocks. I work at FoMoCo in the IT Department and the place is pretty dead after noon the day before a holiday, so she told us all to get out and have a wonderful weekend.
I got home and Kim and the Kids were out stringing lights and patching a hole in the inflatable thingy in the front yard. She always does such a good job (my wife, not the inflatable thingy). I hate putting up lights but I love looking at them. She likes putting up lights and loves looking at them, so we make a pretty good team there!

My Father in Law came over to finish some electrical wiring for the lights. Kim's been bugging him about that since we moved in. Now we've got an outdoor plug with a switch on it and all!!!

Anyway, tomorrow is Thanksgiving and that's cool and all, but I find I don't enjoy it as much as I used to. Every year since we've been married (15 of them in fact) we've gone to my wife's family party. There's always good food and we can watch the Lion's do whatever it is they do (not football) but it's not what it used to be.
The cousins either don't show up, or show up late or leave early because they all have something more important to do. The 'Grown Ups' (Aunts, Uncles and In-Laws) have their petty issues that have to be danced around and it just ends up being a long tiring day.

Not sure what to do about it, other than suck it up.

The bugger is, we are the good kids. We are the ones that come to all the family stuff we possibly can. We go to church every week. We show up at Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving and the family reunions. We are the ones that everyone knows will be there and sometimes that plain sucks. We don't like letting people down by not showing up, but we also don't like feeling pressured into doing something that we don't want to do. How do you split the difference?

Blah!

Well, we'll end up going and then stopping by my sisters afterward and hopefully playing some Books and Runs...fun rummy game.

Friday the fun starts, but that'll be another post.
L8R

Hello World!

Weblogs wobble but they don't fall down! Hahaha.
Sorry, I thought that was funny.

What a way to start huh?!? With a bad joke? Seriously? Seriously.

Hi..this is my foray into the wide world of blogging. I'm probably coming to this dance a little late, for reasons that will be apparent (hopefully) on upcoming posts. I'm not entirely sure why I've created this, nor if anyone (other than some bot) will read it. That's ok either way. You see, I'm looking for my voice. It's inside, I can almost hear it, feel it, use it. I've got so much to say but have a tough time expressing it. That's where you come in. You, who may not even be there, are my sounding board.

So, wish me luck and see you around.